When I found out that we were finally having a baby, I said to DH that I wanted this baby to be an Eco Baby. By that I meant, that we shouldn't go out and buy all new everything - tempting though it is! But borrow or buy as much as possible second hand. Luckily for us, being a bit challenged in the fertility department meant that pretty much everyone we know has already had at least one if not two children and so we quickly had offers of all kinds of things from friends in Japan, who were pleased to have some space back in their tiny storage closets. I "may" have splashed out on some cute clothes from NZ but in my defense, they were all on sale! Opposite seasons rock.
Then we had the earthquake and the nuclear power station up the road had a melt down etc. I decided to decamp to NZ. For a second time, I have been shown amazing generosity by friends and even relative strangers. Someone I have never met, who works with my sister gave me a beautiful bassinet for Maru chan to sleep in. Someone else is giving us a changing table. Not to mention all the great clothes, car seat and other paraphernalia my friend P gave me. The only thing we have had to buy new is disposable stuff like nappies, creams and what not. NZ also has the most amazing array of great reusable cloth nappies which I am planning to use after Maru chan is out of the 7-10 nappies a day stage that newborns apparently go through. The environment will have to forgive me those disposable diapers and the energy and resources it cost to make them. At first I was skeptical about using cloth (keep in mind I still haven't actually used them yet!) but after researching the issue, running the numbers and thinking about our lifestyle in Japan and how we wash clothes (using recycled water from the bath tub, only drying on the line in a very sunny part of Japan at our house that has solar panels on the roof etc), I decided that it would work for us and since doing the laundry is strangely the one chore I don't mind I have decided to try using them.
So, only 3 more weeks until DH gets here and on his bday too! Now remember everyone, we are putting it out there to the universe that Maru chan will be born from the evening of the 11th of June or sometime shortly after! :)
As a mom to 4 amazing boys, ages 5 to 15, I can definitely relate to how you feel about the waiting game! You are going to be amazed with how completely in LOVE you will be with your little one. I know, you think you know now how you will feel, but the love you will have will be BIGGER and more WONDERFUL than you can imagine! I am still head over heels for my crazy crew of monkeys, and kiss and love on them every day! I've enjoyed reading along with your journey these past many months, thanks so much for sharing with us! I wish you and your family all the best in the world as you welcome your sweet baby and get to know one another! Enjoy these days, they fly so swiftly! =)
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Julie in Austin
I've been away from blogging for awhile. Nice to come back and see that you, Maru chan and husband are doing well.
ReplyDeleteMay you be blessed with a good birth experience and a great start as a growing family!
Hi Julie and Anita. Thanks so much for your lovely comments. It is so nice to know we have so many people all around the place sending us good wishes!
ReplyDeleteAs I read your post I thought - how cool...an ECO baby...and just how that wish came true was also amazing. I also thought how fitting. I've thought of you often over this time when we didn't have internet and I'm as anxious as can be to see pictures of your new little bundle! Three to five weeks will fly by and before you know it....you'll be a mommy! How exciting! Warm hugs from Nogata!
ReplyDeleteHi Connie, thanks for your lovely message. Don't worry I will attempt to post some pics of Maru chan as soon as possible!
ReplyDeleteThose are really lovely cloth nappies. Many people say it's a lot of work, but really it's not. I hope you love them.
ReplyDeleteSending some baby born on June 11th vibes!
Hi medea, thanks for the vibes! Keep em coming! Although tonight I feel like the baby might burst out of my tummy, alien style!
ReplyDeleteMy little bit of advice is to buy only a few cloth diapers and try them out for a few days before diving in and buying all the other supplies, I dove in and bought EVERYTHING. 24 cloth diapers, special detergent, diaper pail, diaper sprayer, cloth wipes, wipe warmer, special diaper cream, a wet bag, etc. etc. All told I spent about $800 on all the assorted supplies.
ReplyDeleteI was sure that I was going to go that route bc I would be a stay at home mom and we are tight on money etc. I ended up hating it and sold it all. Husband was NOT pleased. A lot of people love them and it is a great fit. Just don't be like me.
Hi Kim, thanks for your message and your words of warning! I will definitely just buy a few and see how we go!
ReplyDeleteI have always been a bit weird to the idea of cloth diapers, but I found out recently my mom used them when I was little. Since I was the first born (out of four) my parents totally threw themselves into the whole eco-friendly and make from scratch. Unfortunately, they lost their way around child 3, but I imagine 3+ children is an ok excuse to not have as much energy and free time.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe she is almost here - and is so so SO incredibly lucky to have you as her Mummy xxx
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